5 common myths about bullying, debunked

Bullying is a serious issue, but many myths persist that make it hard to identify. To stop bullying in its tracks, you must first be able to recognize it. Here are five common myths about bullying, and the truth behind them.

Bullying is a normal part of growing up

Bullying is not normal or acceptable in any form. It can cause lasting harm to a person’s self-esteem, relationships and mental health. Mistreatment is not a rite of passage; it’s a serious issue that should never be ignored.

If you ignore it, the bullying will stop

The opposite is often true. Speaking up is a much better way to stop the cycle. Seek help from teachers, friends or trusted adults if you think someone is being mistreated. If you can do so safely, express your support to the person being bullied.

Bullying only happens face-to-face

Physical pushing and teasing still occur, but bullying has now moved online, too. Cyberbullying can reach victims anywhere and at any time. It often occurs through texts, social media or gaming platforms, making the target feel as if they can’t escape it.

Bullies are almost always boys

Bullying isn’t limited to boys. Girls also bully, although it may take different forms. Girls often use tactics like exclusion, rumours or social pressure rather than physical force.

Children who bully are always the tough kids

There’s a stereotype that bullies are always the biggest, strongest or most aggressive kids. The truth is that bullying can come from anyone. It isn’t about toughness; it’s about misusing power, which can take many different forms.

Now that you know the truth about these common myths, you can better support those affected and help create environments where respect and empathy are the norm.